When you're in the rain, you can't see it's beauty because you're looking for a dry place. Once you're in the dry place, all you see is the rain.Sometimes our mind plays tricks on us and we blame it on life or others.The pain becomes a good excuse for why we're never happy.To stop the pain one much stop the games one has become conditioned to playing with their life. You can never blame others for your pain, you just get in a dry place and not look back at the rain.
Peace...
John L Norris